Why do some children hate their parents?
15.06.2025 03:40
Why not just rent a room? The income from the online shop is not as much as before. That's why in this online era I want to save money by not paying for a room + food + monthly quota. Here I only pay half of the costs I would pay if I rented a room. But God willing, next month I want to leave here however is that.
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PLEASE DO NOT SHARE OUTSIDE QUORA!!
I am currently studying online. Actually, my studies are out of town. Because it is online, I prefer to stay at home for a few months. While I was at home, my mother, when she saw me working on my college assignments, looked like she was mocking me. And always said
I DON'T UNDERSTAND why my mother loves my older sister so much. Even though they often fight. My older sister even said harsh words to my mother when they fought. In the past, I was the one who was by my mother's side, defending my mother to the death, my mother cried on my shoulder and I WIPPED HER TEARS. I cursed people who MISTAKE MY MOTHER, WHOEVER IT IS.
Why can't I speak up to my sister's husband? This is just a plan, I intend to speak up when I'm no longer in this house. Because I don't want to see a big commotion here. And there's not much evidence yet, I'm in the process of collecting it.
Thank you for your response, sis. Here I want to answer the question..
While I was studying out of town, MY MOTHER NEVER ASKED ABOUT ME AT ALL. Maybe even if I died she would never know.
Why does my mother support this? I don't know! My mother has always loved my brother very much. Actually, my brother's affair has been going on since we were dating. My mother always takes advantage of this affair. something about money.
Why is the covert narcissist actively avoiding me when they see me everyday?
MY MOTHER ACCOMPANIED MY SISTER IN AN AFFAIR!
In short, they have been married for 4 years. But from the first year, my brother has been cheating AND SUPPORTED BY MY MOTHER.
But when we made up again, I felt like I was being kicked out of this family. Always asked 'when are you going to be offline again? Why is it taking so long?', honestly I felt like my self-esteem was being trampled on. I was considered different. Labeled a disobedient child just because I didn't agree with my mother and my sister's thoughts. And my mother defended my sister to the death.
My sister already has 1 child. So every time she wants to PLAY IN A HOTEL WITH HER LOVER, her child is always left at my mother's house. Because my sister's husband works. So my sister makes excuses to stay at my mother's house, even though she goes to a hotel with her lover. AND THIS HAS BEEN SEVERAL TIMES.
So if anyone asks whether I hate it or not, the answer is YES, I AM.
In addition, my mother had an affair. Every night I felt really depressed hearing my mother's voice being affectionate with her lover. Even though my stepfather seemed not to care, he loved my mother very much.
My mother, older brother, younger brother and father never prayed. While I, thank God, still remember Allah. Since I was little, I never learned anything from my family, I studied the Koran and learned everything until I could go to college purely because of myself and the teachers at school.
just imagine, HIS LOVER HAS BEEN IN MY HOUSE SEVERAL TIMES AND HAS BEEN FRIENDLY WITH MY MOTHER. UNTIL THIS MOMENT AND THIS SECOND.
And also, for some reason the family here always hates me. Maybe because I'm different or something.
"Like you could be a successful person"
IS IT CURSED TO BE BORN IN A FAMILY LIKE THIS?
Honestly, it really hurts to type.
What do you think is the #1 cause of why relationships nowadays don't seem to last long?
Why didn't I speak up about this to my dad? HE WOULD ALWAYS DEFEND MY MOTHER. HE WOULD NOT BELIEVE I WAS WRONG. SO I KEPT IT ALL TO MYSELF. GOD!!! IM SO FUCKING TIRED.
Even at home I contribute to the food.
Oh yes ..
Being a 19yo girl without family is so sick, I can't take this damage.
I have 1 stepbrother. He's a boy. He's in 3rd grade of high school. But he spends his life playing games. I swear from morning till night he plays games all the time. He never helps with anything at all. All he does is sleep, eat, and play games. AND MY MOTHER UNDERSTANDS THAT. OH MY GOD I KNOW.
AND AGAIN..
I live with a stepfather who turns a blind eye to my mother's behavior. So whether it's wrong or right, my father doesn't care.
My mother always taught her children to put their hands down rather than up. I was once forced to ask for money from my well-off uncle, even though I didn't need anything at that time. I don't know why I was told to ask. My mother said 'You don't seem to need money'
"Why are you studying like that? You're wasting your money. You'd be better off like your sister, just get married."
So, my sister is married to a very good husband. Not just good, but rich, handsome, and responsible. Daily needs? VERY FULFILLED.
I feel like saying 'Bacot' in front of his face. But I prefer to ask for forgiveness. I study using my own money selling online.